Central Gurdwara Resource Centre Newsletter

Issue 19 April 1997

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa
Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Vaisakhi Greetings to all. Welcome to our April issue. I am sure you will be celebrating Vaisakhi in many varied ways this month, naturally the best place to be is in a Sadh Sangat, whether it is shouting Fateh on the streets during a Nagar Kirtan (parade) or singing beautiful Shabads among your family. We would like to celebrate with you, our sangat, we hope you enjoy this special double issue and with Guru's Kirpa and your support we will be able to produce several more issues like this.

Vaisakhi is a time when many take Amrit and join the ranks of the Khalsa, it is also a time when many think about taking Amrit, but are afraid of taking this step. Taking Amrit is a commitment. A commitment to our Guru and to living a honest, truthful life as Guru Nanak stressed so highly. The Panj Payare offered their heads when Guru Gobind Singh asked, we must do the same, offer our EGO. The rules (Reht Maryada) laid down by the Khalsa Panth are there to make it easier to follow this truthful life free of Ego and the 5 vices (Anger, Greed, Lust, Attachment and Pride).

Well there have been some interesting events this last month, including the Family Day held at Central Gurdwara and the Youth Forum in Coventry (reports on page 5). I have just seen the movie "The English Patient", apart from it winning several Oscars this movie portrays Sikhs in a positive role. One of the main characters is Lieutenant Kirpal Singh (Kip) a bomb disposal expert during World War II in Italy. Well worth seeing.

So what do we have in store for you this month. We start with our regular piece of Gurbani with English Translation, this month we feature the Sohila that we should all be reading every night. The Poets Corner features the poetry of Prof. Puran Singh, I do encourage you to discover some of his books, you will be surprised.

Finally I do hope you enjoy our young readers page, do let us know what you think and we welcome all your contributions to the newsletter. Happy Vaisakhi

Bhupinder Singh


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Sohila

Were the Gurus open to other Paths?

Train of Thought

The Marriage Debate

Family Day in London

National Sikh Youth Forum

Poets Corner - Prof. Puran Singh

Young readers Page - Wordsearch

Important Dates in Sikh History - April


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This months Gurpurabs

Apr. 5 Gur Gadhi, Guru Har Rai Ji

Apr. 8 Gur Gadhi, Guru Amar Das Ji

Apr. 11 Jotti Jot, Guru Angad Dev Ji

Apr. 12 Jotti Jot, Guru Hargobind Ji

Apr. 13 Vaisakhi

Apr. 20 Gur Gadhi, Guru Tegh BahadhurJi

Apr. 20 Jotti Jot, Guru Har Krishan Ji


Sohila

This month we continue our introduction of various pieces of Gurbani.

Sohila, "Hymn of praise", often called Kirtan Sohila is the finale to the evening prayers. It is recited just before going to bed and as the Guru Granth Sahib is closed (Sukhasan) and ceremoniously carried to rest. It is also recited at cremation ceremonies. It is found on pages 12 and 13 of Guru Granth Sahib.

Sohila consists of five hymns. The first three were uttered by Guru Nanak and the third and forth by Guru Ram Das and Guru Arjan Dev respectively.

The religious and artistic value of these hymns is superb. The first hymn visualises the union of the individual self with the Ultimate Reality. The second presents the singularity of the Ultimate despite endless diversity of scriptures, teachers and philosophies. The third rejects all modes of external piety and ritual, and vividly portrays the entire cosmos making harmonious worship. Instead of trays with lamps placed upon them with incense and other offerings, the skies become an integrated platter, the sun and moon the lamps, stars the beads, and all vegetation an offering of flowers. Loud chanting is replaced by the inner unstruck melody playing motionlessly.

The fourth hymn in the Sohila is by the Fourth Guru and it explains the import of the divine Name through which all suffering and transmigration is annulled. The fifth hymn, by Guru Arjan Dev, celebrates life here in this world: we must avail ourselves of this wonderful opportunity to serve others and to win divine merit. The unknown Mystery becomes known to the enlightened person who thereafter enjoys the bliss and freedom of immortality.

Here we present the first two pauris of Sohila with their translation.

Raag Gauree Deepki Mahalla Paila Ek Onkaar Satgur Parsad

Jai ghar keerat akhee-ai, kartay kaa ho-e beechaaro

If there be a home for praise and thoughts of the Creator

Tith ghar gaavho sohila sivreho sirjanhaaro

Let that home sing in celebration and remember our designer

Tum gaavho mayray nirbhao kaa sohila

You sing a hymn of glory to my Fearless One

Haon vaari jit sohelai sadaa sukh ho-e. Rahao

I offer myself to the hymn of glory which brings everlasting joy

Nit nit jeer-aray samaalee-an daykhaigaa dayvanhaar

Ever and ever, all creatures are nurtured and cared for by the giver.

Tayrai daanai keemat naa pavai tis daatay kavan sumaar

Your bounty cannot be measured, who can reckon that Giver

Sanbat saaha likhe-aa mil kar paavho tayl

The wedding day is written, come friends, come pour the oil together

Dayho sajan aseesaree-aa jio hovai saaheb sio mayl

Give me your blessings, my friends, that I may join my Sovereign


Ghar ghar ayko paahuchaa sadray nit pavann

Each and every home receives the marriage thread, the invitations are sent to each and all

Sadanhaaraa simree-ai Nanak say deh aavann

Nanak says, remember the Sender, for the day will come for all

Raag Asa Mahalla Paila. Chhe-a ghar chhe-a gur chhe-a updays

There are six schools with six leaders and six doctrines

Gur Gur ayko vays anek.

But there is only One Guru, though in countless guises

Baaba, jai ghar kartay keerat ho-e

My old friend the school that sings the glory of our Creator

So ghar raakh vadaa-ee to-e. Rahao

Will bring honour if you make it your home

Visu-ay chase-aa gharee-aa paiharaa thitee varee maah ho-aa

Moments become seconds, minutes, hours, days and months

Sooraj ayko rut Anek. Nanak kartay kay kartay vays.

The sun is one, however many seasons there may be.

Nanak says, the Creator has so many forms

Introduction and translation taken from the book

The Name of my Beloved by Nikki-Guninder Kaur Singh

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Were Guru Sahibs open to other paths?

Manjit Kaur came home crying. At school she had been told that Christ

had said that those who did not believe in him would suffer in hell.

Some Muslim children had said that Muhammad had said that those who did

not believe in him would go to hell. Her mumpupwee, Simran Kaur, sat her down and asked her to recite a little bit from her Bedtime Prayer which only takes a few minutes. She read:

"Chhe-a ghar chhe-a gur chhe-a updays

Gur Gur ayko vays anek."

Six schools of Indian religions, six gurus, six messages But the Guru of gurus is the Supreme One manifested differently

There are different religions but all start from God. However, over the thousands of years they have become corrupted. They have left the praises of God, and become personality cults.

"Baaba, jai ghar kartay keerat ho-e So ghar raakh vadaa-ee to-e. Rahao"

Friend, that discipline which focuses on the praise of the Creator is the best. In that system lies your well-being and glory.

Consider this carefully:

Gurmat is the only discipline believing in One God, one humanity. It is the only one which focuses not on a personality cult but only of worship of the Supreme Being. Its scripture does not contain wrong science, nor thousands of year old strange and cruel social rules. It is Book of Hymns bringing the Light of the Creator to this dark world. It focuses on the praise of the Creator. It is the best system, though not the only one.

All Gurbani from Sohila, Raag Asa Mahalla 1 p12 Guru Granth Sahib.

Kanwar Ranvir Singh


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Train of thought

A Gurmukh pyari-o said 'by thinking wrong thoughts people make themselves ill, they make themselves depressed with their negativity'.

In one respect, there is little difference between a Gurmukh and a ManMukh. Both are attacked by the 5 enemies, both have suffered traumatic situations, both recall happy times and sad times in their minds.

The difference is the way they deal with the attack. The ManMukh, the untrained warrior, has no idea that the thought that has come into their mind is an enemy. They grab hold of it, think about it and jumping into the carriage they ride the Train of Thought to its bitter end.

My friend at Uni loved listening to depressing songs, he said it made it feel sad and he liked that!!!

Mention money and relatives and un-returned loans, and this other person I know will jump on the train of thought and ride all the way to the point where they are as mad as hell at the injustice of it all!.

Another person says some people live their life, but i am enduring it. I guess cause of my sins I was born to suffer...all I think about is running away, running away, running away is the only words in my mind day and night. One bad thought comes along and these people jump onto it and ride it to the bitter end, depressing the hell out of themselves.

So how does the Gurmukh deal with it? Firstly, the Gurmukh has ridden this train many times in the past. BUT HE KNOWS WHERE IT ENDS UP SO HE DOESN'T RIDE IT AGAIN. As soon as the negative thought comes he doesn't cling on to it, he watches it ... calls out its name ... YOU'RE ANGER ... yes I've seen you before... you can go because i haven't got time for you ... only time for Waheguru Waheguru.

The Gurmukh has had bad experiences and when something triggers off the memory, she doesn't wallow in it like a pig rolling in the mud, she puts her foot down and says 'I REFUSE TO FOLLOW THIS TRAIN OF THOUGHT' and she does Waheguru Waheguru.

Ultimately, each little battle that is won leads to winning the war, these thoughts don't come back very often..they know they've got no chance..plus there's no room for them because Waheguru Waheguru occupies the mind.

No-one else can fight your internal battles, no matter how hard the time you are going through is... ONLY YOU AND GURU CAN FIGHT IT... but you have to FIGHT. Your hard time is not worse than Guru Arjun Dev ji sitting on the hot plate, and he said 'Your Will is Sweet, I beg for your Name'... so don't lose faith in God for giving you Dukh. You are drowning in the ocean of fire: Desire, and only by holding onto SatGuru ji will you escape... Naam is your Support, without it you will drown.

Harjit Singh Lakhan.


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The Marriage Debate

We introduced this topic in February and the following is a response from a parents point of view.....

Marriage is an issue which has been increasingly discussed of late yet this foundation block of our community rarely receives the attention it deserves. The consequence of this, inevitably, generates growing concern and confusion amongst both parents and the younger generation.

In my personal experience, the marriage ceremony is mainly a religious ceremony and the duty of the bride's parents is to ensure that it is performed as per the guidance provided by Guru Granth Sahib. Without this the marriage is meaningless and becomes no more than an excuse for a party or to impress relatives.

However, the situation faced by an ever increasing number of our community is that those who profess to be Sikhs prefer to give the Gurdwara wedding limited importance and instead focus on the customs which have grown like parasites around the marriage.

The custom to which I refer, relate to the financial side of the ceremony, where demands are being made directly or indirectly for gifts or money and there is the expectation from the boy's family of a huge, lavish wedding. These customs vary from family to family, area to area, Gurdwara to Gurdwara, but have one element in common; the bride's family gives and the grooms family receives. Pre-wedding ceremonies are increasingly adding unnecessary financial pressure on the girls family for what is hoped to be a source of joy and not stress. These traditions are valueless and outdated rituals borrowed from another time and another country which surely are accorded too much attention. We would hope that our community leaders in the Gurdwaras to stand up to these customs since they contradict the teachings of our Gurus.

The Guru Granth Sahib rejects that the boy's family should make demands on the girls family as they mirror the greed of one party and demeans the status of the bride. Why should the girl's parents have to pay a "ransom" for their daughters furture happiness?

Alternatively, we are reminded that our Gurus preached Equality, Fairness and Simplicity in day to day life, but when it comes to putting ideas into practice, no one steps forward to promote or protect these tenets of our belief.

As we approach the twenty first century, and many of us feel concerned about the future role of religion for the younger generation, now is the time to identify whether true religious values are to continue or are they to be belittled and diluted by mindless customs or meaningless traditions.

Kamaljeet Kaur

Anand Karaj - relevant points from the Sikh Reht Maryada:

Extracted from the English Translation of Sikh Reht Maryada published by the Dharam Parchar Committee (SGPC) Amritsar. Copies available from your Gurdwara or from us.


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FAMILY DAY IN LONDON

On 1 March World Sikh Council, Europe Zone, held its first event in Central Gurdwara, London. This involved launch of Family Paath Mala Initiative, and World Sikh Council Youth Programme and a demonstration of the Akaal Purkh Ki Fauj sessions for the three Brigades. The event was supported by sangat from all over U.K., France and also the USA.

WSC - PAATH MALA INITIATIVE

Family Paath Mala Initiative aims to combat the breakdown of Sikh families by encouraging families to come together preferably at a certain time each day as a sangat to offer prayers to Waheguru. This might involve Simran, Mul Manter, or Sodar Rehras (evening prayer), discussion of a pauri (verse) of Gurbani (Sacred Scripture), any commitment which the family can make. The family can then make a small donation in a private collection box dedicated to the Akaal Takht. The money would be used at the family's discretion for any Panthic purpose. In the same way as the family can unite, so the Panth can unite under the Akaal Takht. All Sikhs are invited to participate in this Initiative.

WSC - SIKH YOUTH PROGRAMME

The World Sikh Council Youth Officer in Europe Zone is a well-known young keertanee, Bibi Navleen Kaur Ji. She managed to bring representatives of many of the youth organisations in the U.K. united together under the Akaal Takht.

These included Dr Dapinder Singh of Sikh Naujawan Sabha UK, Bhai Jagjit Singh of Sikh Information Society, Bhai Jagdish Singh of The Sikh Centre, Coventry, Bhai Bhupinder Singh of Central Gurdwara Resource Centre, Bibi Paramjit Kaur, Bhai Harjit Singh Lahkan, and Bibi Maninder Kaur. Administrative work was superbly handled by Bibi Abinaash Kaur.

Apart from fostering Panthic unity, the event also demonstrated the skills of many of the young sewadars who took original, pro-active approaches to convey the three themes of the event - sewa, simran, sacrifice. Bibi Maninder Kaur who co-led sewa workshops came in on crutches as devotion to duty!

GATKA DISPLAY

An excellent gatka display was provided by Baba Fateh Singh Akhara, the best display team in Europe, who will soon be taking part in the world gatka event in Australia.

FUND RAISING FOR COMIC RELIEF

Children took away sponsorship forms to raise money for Comic Relief, a national fund-raising event in the U.K. The kids are doing sponsored Mul Manter.

AKAAL PURKH KI FAUJ

The Akaal Purkh Ki Fauj UK Command Officers took this opportunity to demonstrate the training concepts of the FAUJ to local parents and participants. Fauj Officers Autar Singh and Avtar Singh led the Sant Sepahi Brigade in a stimulating discussion on sikhi contribution to leadership principles.

Officer Ranvir Singh, Narinder Singh and Daljit Singh led the Miri Piri Brigade through various activities, while Officers Rajinder Kaur, Tanjit Kaur, Harinder Kaur and others led the Mighty Khalsa Brigade in their training session.

NAAM Samagam

After dinner, the Naam session started. Everyone participated in two hours of Simran.

All participants enjoyed this family day. It was a great first event for the World Sikh Council, Europe Zone.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa

Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!!

Kanwar Ranvir Singh, Media Officer
World Sikh Council, Europe Zone

One who eliminates mental wickedness from within the mind, and casts out emotional attachment and egotistical pride, comes to recognize the All-pervading Soul, and is intuitively absorbed into the Naam. Without the True Guru, the self-willed manmukhs do not find liberation; they wander around like lunatics. They do not contemplate the Shabad; engrossed in corruption, they utter only empty words.

Sri Guru Granth Sahib p39


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National Sikh Youth Forum

This event was held on 15 March 1997 in Guru Nanak Parkash Gurdwara, Coventry.

A quality discussion developed among the attending delegates. Topics that were discussed included the issue of discrimination and also on Sikh family values. Two documentaries were shown, which lead to the discussion of Sikhs in the Media and Public life. In conclusion the forum recommended the following points:

The next forum will be held in the Summer.

Forever and ever, You are the Giver of Peace. I bow down and fall at Your Feet. I act as it pleases You, as You cause me to act, Kind and Compassionate Dear Lord..

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Meditating, meditating in remembrance, Nanak has found peace. Twenty-four hours a day, I sing Your Glorious Praises. All my hopes and desires are fulfilled; I shall never again suffer sorrow.

Majh M:5 Sri Guru Granth Sahib p.106


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This month we shall feature the poetry of Prof. Puran Singh, who was one of the the 20th Centuries most respected Sikh Theologians and Poets. Many of his works were written in English and his writings are noted for their depth and understanding.

The Song of the Sikh

"Ah! Well, let my hair grow long; .....
I cannot forget the knot He tied on my head;
It is sacred, it is his mark of remembrance.
The Master has bathed me in the light of suns not yet seen;
There is eternity bound in this tender fragile knot.
I touch the sky when I touch my hair,
and a thousand stars twinkle through the night.

Who says the hair is no more than grass?

Yet a single hair is a dear remembrance, an heirloom,
a trust, a pledge, a love, a vow, an inspiration.
My form is but a statue of dumb gratitude for the knot
of Friendship tied by those Kings of Eternity,
the Gurus who came to the Punjab;
The Saviours who were gracious to love me and made me
a home in the Realm of Eternal Beauty."

The King of Life

The Thread of life is in His hands;
My heart beats low and fast as He moves the thread.
He is in the innermost chambers of my soul, and yet I find Him not.
Oh! to be close to Him!
I rend my clothes when life moves not, I grow insane and sane by turns, but it avails not;
When the King of Life comes I forget all complaints.

Harimandir at Amritsar

FROM the middle of the Lake of Immortality emerges
the Golden Lotus of myriad petals, the Brama Lotus,
as the sun rises out of the sea on the dark worlds.
The blue ocean, lit with the magic smile of the new dawn
dances with the morning hymns of praise; joy
floats on the surface of the waters.
Is it the birth of God's Word? Or has the first hour
of Creation come?
I die in depths of passion, on the marble floor of the
Golden Temple, as the honey of His grace falls soft
as dew on me.
The bee forgets the flower in the perfume of my death,
and doves hover around, cooing the Song of Love.
It is the Ecstasy of finished labour, the realised life; it
is the appeasement of the ever-unclosed eyes of
those that are pining in separation, and the joys of
the slumber-sealed eyes of those that have met.
It is the garland of loving hands round the waist of the Beloved, it is the palm of thankfulness

from The Temple Tulips by Puran Singh

Extracts from SPIRIT OF THE SIKH

"Wisdom comes to us through His grace, spontaneously as speech comes to the infant" "Sometimes I feel happy in the dust of a poor man's cottage; at others I feel cursed by rich raiment. Dainty dishes have tasted to me bitter; but a dry crust and water tasted like amrita when offered in love." "I condemn nothing, I renounce nothing. All comes so naturally and in its own time to me. Without eyes, have I more than those that have eyes." "We cannot express what we feel. All those who wish to know us must see our Beloved."

"As birds roost for the night on any wayside tree, so does the Sikh on this earth in his pilgrimage to immortality of Love make any branch his home. The earth is small, but the sky of his vision is wide, and the great Guru has given him wings. The very sparrows fly with the power of the hawk that is seen perching on the right thumb of the Guru."

"We till now, have a proverb in our language that the very dogs of the Guru could work miracles. Our daily life became a series of miracles. Miracles are nothing extraordinary. Extraordinary is the Inspiration of Peace. Be inspired yourself, and all life is a series of miracles."

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"We of the Punjab, were called to don the robe of the Guru's Discipleship. We wear turbans as He did; we keep long hair as He kept. We prefer the colours he liked. We are still alive with the spark he lit in our souls. The torch when lighting another creates its own images.

We carry the Guru's face. His features, His whole image, in our face and form. As I ponder who I am, I knew I am of the Guru."

Puran Singh.


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WORDSEARCH

Find the following words all related to Vaisakhi in the grid:

Daya Dharam Himat Sahib Mohkam

Amrit Khanda Simran Seva Gurdwara Khalsa


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Important Dates in Sikh History - April

Apr 1 1621: PRAKASH UTSAV (Birthday) Guru Tegh Bahadhur

Apr 2 1757: Destruction of Harmandir Sahib by Timur Shah and Jahan Khan.

1809: Treaty of Amritsar between M. Ranjit Singh and the British.

Apr 3 1775: Foundation stone of Harmindir Sahib, Amritsar laid for 2nd time.

Apr 4 1914: Nanak Jahaz sailed from Hongkong to Canada.

Apr 5 1846: Treaty signed between British Govt. and Maharaja Dalip Singh.

1849: Punjab was annexed by the British.

Apr 6 1849: Maharani Jinda was moved to Chunar Fort (prison).

Apr 10 1754: Jassa Singh Ahluwalia given Jathaedari of Sikh Nation.

Apr 11 1762: Ahmed Shah Abdali desecrated Harmindir Sahib.

Apr 12 1801: Coronation of Ranjit Singh as Sarkar-i-Wala.

Apr 13 1559: Guru Amar Das Patshah started Vaisakhi Maela traditions.

1919: Jallianwala massacre, 379 unarmed killed and 2,000 wounded.

1970: The first two American Sikhs partake Amrit

Apr 14 1634: Battle of Amritsar between Mughals and Sikhs, led by Guru Hargobind Ji.

1772: Sikh forces crossed Indus and plundered Peshawar city.

On this day Ahmad Shah died.

1892: Khalsa College Council established at Amritsar.

Apr 15 1469: PRAKASH UTSAV (Brithday) Guru Nanak Dev Ji.

1501: Guru Nanak started preaching the new religion, Sikhism.

1563: PRAKASH UTSAV (Birthday) Guru Arjun Dev Ji.

1579: Arjan dev married Mata Ganga.

1790: Ranjit Singh became head of Sukharchakiya Misl.

Apr 16 1764: Sikhs captured Lahore and issued their own coins.

1781: Sikhs attack Shahdara Patpat, Delhi.

1789: Invassion of Delhi by the Khalsa Forces.

1961: The passing away of Bhai Sahib Randhir Singh Ji.

Apr 17 1766: Conquest of PaharGanj, Delhi by Khalsa Forces.

Apr 19 1661: Guru Tegh bahadhur Ji visits Prayag.

1854: Maharaja Dalip Singh leaves for England.

Apr 20 1816: Khalsa Forces march towards Kashmir.

Apr 23 1624: Foundation of Kiratpur laid by Guru Hargobind Ji.

Apr 25 1635: Battle of Kartarpur between Mughals and Sikhs led by

Guru Hargobind Ji.

1809: Amritsar agreement between Ranjit Singh and British

Apr 27 1834: Khalsa Forces cross Attock river.

Apr 28 1635: Painda Khan killed by Guru Hargobind in a personal dual.

1835: Maharaja Ranjit Singh reaches Peshawar.

Apr 29 1635: Battle of Phagwara between Mughals and Sikhs

led by Guru Hargobind Ji.

Apr 30 1689: Bhangani battle between Guru Gobind Singh and the Hill Rajas.

1837: Jamroadh battle where Hari Singh Nalwas accepted Shahedee

1921: SGPC registered with British government as a Sikh body.

Dates courtesy of Baldev Singh detailed listings posted on Khalsa net daily. Comments to email: baldev_singh@email.mot.com



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